10 Ways to Tickle Her Fancy and Be a Winner

Get Her Fancy By Doing Easy Things

Showing her you care isn’t as complicated as some would have you believe.

It’s pretty easy, provided you do actually care.

caring for your lady can be mostly easy things you know

Caring for your lady can be mostly easy things you know

The most important part is to always be genuine.

A woman knows when you are doing something just because you think she expects it and she won’t particularly like that (with some exceptions of course).

If there is a lovely lady in your life there are lots of things you can do to let her know how special she is without coming off clueless.


Here’s the basic 10 Ways to Tickle Her Fancy:

That Bouquet Is Always a Winner

Flowers of course are a given.

Don’t listen to naysayers who argue that flowers are outdated.

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And don’t feel like you have to wait for a traditional day like Valentine’s Day or a birthday.

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Sometimes sending flowers on a random day is a more meaningful gesture.


Sweets Get Her Sweet

Candy is also a given (if she has a sweet tooth).

But, don’t give her any ordinary candy. Give her her favorite.

I’m sure she’s told you.

Were you paying attention?


Listen and Understand Her Signs

Pay attention! No really.

There is nothing sexier to women than having their men actually listen and pay attention to them.

Women do not want to have to tell or ask you twice and if they drop info in a conversation you need to tuck it away until you need it.



They are expecting you to.


Understand Some Romance

Run a bath for her at the end of a long day.

Don’t forget the soft music, flickering candles, and a relaxing glass of wine.

Don’t make it sexual.

This is for her because she deserves to be taken care of.


Be Healthy Together

Go to the gym with her.

Starting a health routine as a couple is a positive step in a healthy relationship and shows her you mean business.Be or get healthy.

Women want to know the men they love are going to be around for a long time.

They don’t want to have to worry about becoming widows at any age.


And Do Things Together Too

Encourage other “couple” type activities that can enhance or enrich your relationship.

Take a class or learn a skill together that somehow further perpetuates your common goals.


Honesty Is Everything

When she asks your opinion don’t be afraid to be honest, just remember that it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.

If your opinion on where or what to eat – for example, is extreme, try to express it without aggression or belittling her suggestions.


Respect Wins Votes

the best time to show her you care is right now

The best time to show her you care is right now!

Treat her with respect.

Never make jokes at her expense and do not participate in another male’s joke at someone else’s expense. Jokes that put women down will not make you attractive and could quickly land you a brush with the cold shoulder.

Here are 9 things you should never say to a long-time significant other.


It Isn’t All Smooth Sailing

Be aware of the signs and signals of relationship trouble. Don’t make her be the one to point out the problems and seek answers to the solutions.

Here are a few ways to help reduce relationship strain.


And Say It!

Remember to tell her you love her.

Sometimes women simply need to hear it and it’s no fun to only hear it when you say it first all of the time.

Make it a point each day to tell her how you feel without being prompted.

That’s all she wrote.

Well, probably not, but if you implement the tactics above you will be far ahead in the game of love.

Remember: the small things matter.


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