What Not to Wear on a First Date

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When it comes to the important first date, your clothes tell your man who you are. Shoulf they be revealing, too tight, or underdressed? Here’s our tips.

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What Should Couples Do to Avoid Divorce?

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divorce can be avoidedBeat The Divorce Odds

Statistics revealed that US has a 53% divorce rate.

If you find that staggering, wait until you hear the percentage in European countries:

  • Luxembourg (60%)
  • Spain (61%)
  • the Czech Republic (66%),
  • Hungary (67%), and
  • Portugal (68%) have obviously higher divorce rates.

This soaring percentage of divorce is just too high to disregard.

What are the things that are potentially putting marriages in trouble?

Are there ways couples can proactively minimise the issues that lead marital dissolution?

To find out the solid steps to avoiding divorce, we gather wise words and practical advice from a relationship expert, well-experienced counsellors, and intelligent authors.

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Below are a few proven tips to keep marital relationships strong:

 

Recall why and how you were fond of your spouse.

Dig for his or her positive sides that you used to admire.

Develop a daily habit of appreciating each other’s positive features.

Concentrate on qualities you truly cherish about your partner. You can also talk about wonderful events or trips you have experienced together.

This will promote mutual fondness and admiration which remains as your best weapon against contempt (due to familiarity).

 

Most lasting marriages are founded on deep friendship.

If you know your partner’s likes, aspirations, oddities, dislikes, etc. – and you can still live with him or her – without any agenda of changing them later, your union has a better chance of surviving the toughest times.

It is not true that best friends agree about everything.

They just know either how not to start a argument or how to end a disagreement without inflicting damage.

 

Know your own as well as your significant other’s communication style.

Explore how you respond to uncomfortable situations and reflect on your reactions.

Having discovered your own style, it’s now time to explore your partner’s.

You’ll eventually realize that you express your views rather differently – and that’s fine.

As long as both sides are heard and understood, you will be able to repair, if not avoid, many conflicts or tensions before they get out of control.

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Create opportunities to interact with your spouse in a loving way.

A warm embrace as you wake up, stolen kisses, and excited hugs when you arrive from work.

These little acts seem petty but they build strong connection between the two of you over time.

Make each other laugh with timeless jokes and funny shows.

Volunteer together to charities or any institution that promotes goodwill.

The more positive experiences you create with your partner, the stronger your bond will be.

 

Decide to live near your workplace but make sure that the house’s location is a mutual choice.

If your wife or husband is not happy about the chosen residence, this could a be a breeding ground of marital conflicts.

The blame game is a bad game because both of you end up losing. Husbands who need to commute more than an hour to work and another hour on the way home will find it difficult to help out in home chores.

Wives who do not need to travel to work might end up doing everything around the house – even child rearing.

Negative sentiments will kick in, eventually leading to greater marital issue.

 

Make sure your work hours leave you enough time to bond with your partner and/or family.

Some jobs are highly demanding that they could cause a strain in relationships.

Long working hours and constant calls and emails even after your shift can pull you emotionally and physically away from your partner.

If both of you have busy careers, this should be fine. If not, this might cause a lot of problems.

Discuss your ambitions and how your lifestyles could match up.

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Discuss money matters transparently.

Gone are the days that only the wives have to worry about money.

Couples need to sit down together and budget your finances to meet all required expenses.

Decide which purchases are essentials and which ones are just for pleasure.

Ask each other how much money they need  to contribute from their salaries.

  • Be sure to observe and explore your partner’s spending habits.
  • Be calm yet candid about necessary money discussions.

 

Couples in intimate partnerships have better sex.

Have you ever asked your partner about her or his sexual preferences and fantasies?

If you find this subject embarrassing, then you will probably end up clueless whether you are fulfilling your spouse’s sexual needs or not.

Worried about your partner’s dwindling libido?

Stop guessing – bring up the topic in a casual conversation.

Never neglect your marriage if you want it to work out.

Both husbands and wives should set to work to make their lives together a source of immeasurable bliss, love and inspiration.

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3 Great Inventions That Help Lovers Succeed in A Long Distance Relationship

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Find out what inventions are really helpful for long distance relationships and the 3 that helped my LDR come together with my current husband.

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Baby Seagulls and The G-Spot

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Like baby seagulls, the G-Spot can be particularly difficult to find, for a lot of guys. And some blokes I’ve spoken to in the past think this ‘spot’ is just a myth and have absolutely no idea this bit of information will allow them to experience a better sexual relationship – as well as allow multiple orgasms for their woman.

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The Next Level With Your Guy Best Friend: Learn the Cons

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The Perks Without Inconvenience

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Having a guy best friend is probably one of the best things a woman could ever have.

It lets you enjoy all the perks, without having to feel a lot of inconvenient emotional hullaballoo.

It is like having a father, brother, mother, sister in one guy.

Male best friends are usually the coolest brothers you will ever have.

  • They will guard you like hounds just to keep you away from unlikely suitors.
  • They can also be stricter than your father.
  • They will be so uptight to even allow you to go out wearing skimpy outfits.

Now isn’t that sweet?

It is.

Really.

But not until all these awesomeness hurt.

Once your emotions get muddled up by confusions and questions, the awesome relationship can also potentially turn into a nightmarish one.

And when it does, you just can’t help but think:

‘Will I cross the line? Or will I keep mum about it, for the sake of friendship?’

There are times when the boundaries get all messed up and either one of you will be at the losing end.

Making a decision on whether or not you should do something, even to recognize that confusing feeling is very daunting.

No one ever wants to lose a best friend, if it can be helped.

While it totally works for some couples, it is not always the same with others.

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Here are some of the questions that you might want to ask yourself first before doing any crucial move.

 

What Do I Really Feel About My Best Friend?

Fine, you are confused.

But being confused is never any clear indication of what it is you actually feel for your best friend.

This confusion may have risen from a misunderstanding you have or had with another guy you are romantically associated with and having your guy best friend around to comfort you gives you the impression that the one for you might be him, your best friend, all along.

Stop and take a step back.

It would be totally unfair to jump into that conclusion.

First of all, you are going through some sensitive issues with your guy and turning to your guy best friend for more than just comfort is being way too inconsiderate and selfish.

Make sure you know well enough that the reasons he is being too caring is all because of the best friend set up you communally acknowledge.

Breaching this line is like wrecking havoc instead of finding inner peace.

There are better chances that your best friend will not appreciate being a replacement.

He definitely knows his worth.

It would spare you tons of disappointment if you would know the worth of your friendship.

 

Am I ready For Rejection?

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If the world is on your side and your best friend feels the same way for you, then you are one really lucky girl.

You just hit the jackpot.

But that is being safe and ideal.

The stakes are equally high on the other end.

You have got to prepare for the worst-case scenario all the time. In this case, you have to be totally ready to accept rejection.

Guys can be twice more mysterious than girls.

There will be lot of times when you would feel like you are being led on something wonderful.

Be careful about how you tread on that path.

Guys sometimes feel like being extra sweet without really meaning something else.

So if you feel like taking risks and confessing what you feel, go on. You just have to make sure you know the answer to this question.

After all, no one ever wants to deal with rejection.

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  • Do you even have one?
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How Marriage Therapy Can Help

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Marriage therapy can be an effective approach for a troublesome relationship. Marriage therapy can offer many benefits for your marriage. Find out how.

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Wanting To Be Single Is Utter Crap

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There’s a great many people who have been through some tough times in past relationships. One of the resounding resolutions is ‘I’m now just happy being single.’ or ‘I no longer need a partner to fulfil me’. With those statements, I’d challenge them that that is entirely untrue…

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